Biden's interview on Morning Joe showed to this insight-oriented retired therapist a sad lack of self-awareness
Some are lauding Biden for being strong in this interview. I saw him as demonstrating weakness.
Later this morning President Biden called in to Morning Joe. He sounded fine but didn't give a forthright answer to Joe asking about a previous repsonse to the question about how he would feel if he lost. He gave the same answer. He said that losing wasn't an option. He didn't say simply what I think Joe was giving him an opportunity to say. He could have, and should have, said "I would feel awful and fearful for the fate of democracy in the country we love so much."
In response to Mika's question about his cognitive ability and a need to take a neurological test he again touted his past accomplishments and when she said that if she or someone she knew had a night like he did at the debate she thought a neurological examination would be in order. Here, again, Biden deflected.
Any clinician will tell you that past accomplishments aren't diagnostic when it comes to assessing a patient's current congitive condition except as they show what a person was as compared to what they are in the present.
Mika did an excellent job holding Biden's feet to the fire when she asked about all the people saying he should step aside. "I dont care what those big names think"was his response. Again, this lacked self-awareness and candor. He could have, and I think should have said, that he respects these people and he's only human and of course their opinions bother him. Instead he said "I am not going to explain anymore about what I should or shouldn't do, I am running."
I can't say I saw signs of dementia or a significantly aging brian from this interview. What I did see was defensiveness and a lack of candor which to me is indicative of a lack of self-awareness.
Given every chance to address the issues raised by his debate performance Biden defiantly deflected the questions which could have been answered by saying how dismayed he was by this. He could have said "Mika, Joe, I wouldn't be human if this didn't cause me a lot of distress."
Trump is an egomaniac. In this interview Biden showed himself to be egotistical. Trump has absoultely no self-awareness. Biden is demonstrating blind-spots in awareness of his weaknesses. Consider what psychological blind spots are:
Blind spots in psychology are hidden areas of our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that can negatively impact our decision making and relationships. These blind spots are often caused by cognitive biases and defense mechanisms, making them difficult to identify on our own. Reference
This doesn't alarm me as much as it saddens me.
Trump has no empathy. Biden has a surplus of empathy. But he is demonstrating that he has diffculty looking critically at himself. Instead of being open to saying he responds like most people do to being attacked by people he respects he either changes the subject or dares them go against him by seeing if they can mount a successful challenge at the convention.
Therapists like I was for 40 years work with their clients to understand their defenses and recongize self-deception. We work with them to develop self-awares and to see how they deny things about themselves that contradict an idealized image of who they want to be. This is part of what has been called self-actualization.
It is very telling that in the Stephanopoulos interview he said he never watched a replay of the debate. If you did a recorded presentation which was widely panned wouldn't you want to view it to see where you went wrong?
I actually was part of Michigan State University Prof. Norman Kagan’s Interpersonal Recall (IPR) project and made training films and videos which are still used to train physicians and psychotherapists. In these films therapists interviewed real clients and afterwards went over the videos with the clients and reflected on what was said, why it was said, and what was felt in the moment.